Most children need 12-16 ounces of whole milk a day. This is an excellent time to completely wean your child to a cup if you have not already done so. Bottle habits can lead to cavities in the front teeth and, depending on what's in it, decreased mealtime appetite. Having your child eat only in his high chair (for all meals and snacks) encourages him to be a part of the family, and avoids "grazing" and potential choking situations.

Your child can be offered almost everything you make for yourself (with the exception of choking foods, such as raw vegetables, nuts, whole grapes, popcorn, hotdogs, etc.), and will probably want to feed himself. Fingers still work the best, but most children can start using a spoon and fork. Continue to cut meats very small.

Mealtime is usually not a toddler's shiniest moment! The typical toddler eats well at only one or two meals each day (dinner is usually the pickiest) and eats better away from home. Avoid battles at the table. Since you cannot make your child eat, provide healthy food choices and praise whatever is eaten. This way you both win. If your child seems disinterested or finished, casually remove his food (and perhaps him) from the table, and inform him with your actions that the next meal or snack will come as usual (not necessarily when he decides it should be!) See our handout "Feeding Your Toddler, Age 1 to 3" if you are interested in more information.

Parents are the main toothbrushers until school age, with children helping as much as they want. A toothbrush is recommended as soon as the first molars erupt. You do not need toothpaste, but a small dab may be just the incentive for a resistant toddler.